What Makes a Libra-- so Amazing? Why are They so Easy to LOVE?

© T.B. Cooper

Of course, you fellow Libras already know why they love us, BUT...
...here I break it down for you un-Libras, who are wondering why...
You love that Libra man so damn much, you can never leave him...
Or why your Libra sister got away with murder, yet you always got caught and punished
for putting the toilet paper the wrong way on the roller...
Or for those parents that are raising a Libra child aka, Satan's Spawn--
that still somehow manages to melt your heart, making you forgive him, his tantrums....

So, What Makes a Libra-- so Amazing? 

Well, for starters…

​As small children, we are the biggest a$$holes – EVER!

We throw the biggest fits,
create the biggest scenes,
and cause the biggest heartaches, than ALL other signs – combined.

So, how do we make it to adolescence?

We are – and forever will be –

 The Biggest Charmers
Natural Born Flirts
The Peace Makers
The Diplomats
The Class Clowns
& we are the only person who means well, but simultaneously has the power to potentially take your heart, your wallet, your mate-- and still manage to convince you that it was just better that way, all with a winning smile.

We never hold grudges, but do have impeccable memories… So think twice before screwing us over, because you'll find we're the easiest to talk to when you have a secret or something juicy to reveal.

We're loyal at work and in love/relationships – until any perceived injustice, tips the scales too far. Then we're gone – but only kind of. We still like to keep anyone and everyone in our lives-- forever. We are social butterflies. We can fit in anywhere, assimilate into any culture, act any part…

Most people never get to see the whole package – the real us; mostly because we are dualistic in nature. Meaning we usually have more than one personality, more than one image, etc. – to a fault. In other words, things being out of whack for one sign, can be APOCALYPTIC for one of us. That's why most of us have addictions or vices...
We need a steady beating drum of consistency in our lives, more than anyone else. And especially as children.  

We get bored easily, but when we do find what we like – that's it. It's now in concrete, and that's what we like – FOREVER. Do NOT even attempt to change our minds, lest you want to be laughed at as if you are a complete imbecile.

We like making plans – well in advance. Don't show up uninvited, unless you want to see us pissed off (which for some reason,most people see as cute, or at least entertaining-- like my siblings & entire family, including my kids do!). Want us to come over? Give us a month or two advance notice. No less. And NEVER, EVER, make a decision about our time, or our location – EVER. We'll stop hanging out with you, and find a new friend.

We have an unnatural obsession with the mirror, from before we can even walk...developing egos & matching heads the size of the Goodyear Blimp... But, in the end, our ego gets us where we want to be. We have an ambitious drive to be the best at whatever it is we think we are:
#1 Wife
#1 Boss
#1 Salesman
#1 Mom
#1 Fill-in-the-Blank- _________

You cannot stay mad at us, unless we let you. That's the reason why we survive into adulthood. We cause the biggest Hell-storms, and our siblings hate us, because they don't understand what we have that they don't. It's Charisma and a magical spell we are able to cast, that makes our parents, our lovers, and pretty much anyone else-- fall in love with us, over & over, and makes it equally as hard to ever forget us.

We've been called the Sweethearts of the Signs, among other things ;) for good reasons. 

And if you're so lucky as to be married to one of us – be patient, and be thankful.
You just won the lottery of Best Spouse Ever. It might just take some of us a really long time to realize that that is who we really are (the men Libras, not the women... we usually compromise and fulfill wishes like a genie). But when we reach our full potential, once-- we don't stop. We're probably one of the only signs, that continues to evolve and top our own image of perfection; every day, every month, every year – trying to be better than who we already were.

So here's to the Powerfully Persuasive and Practically Perfect Libras!

I hope your life stays balanced!

Happy Birthday!
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